It is interesting that while the football community await
the outcome of FIFA’s probe into the alleged biting incident at the World Cup
game between Uruguay’s Luis Suarez and Italian defender
Giorgio Chiellini, the media are out in force, along with a plethora of
psychologists, debating the issue.
I am no stranger to biting myself,
having only recently been bitten by someone who felt that this was their only
defence when cornered and challenged, and took to the ‘fight’ rather ‘flight’
mode of retaliation.
I am no stranger to biting myself’
I have bitten someone, on two separate occasions.
The first time I must have been
about 10 or 11 years old and bit a boy at school on the arm. I don’t remember
doing, but what I do remember to this day is the sense of humiliation, as I was
called up onto the stage during school assembly and shamed in front of
everyone. In the case of my favourite teacher, I felt that I had badly let her
down.
The second incident occurred some
years later when, as a teenager, I accepted a lift home from a lad I’d met at a
disco, only to have him stop the car and attempt to take a kiss too far. I bit
into his arm and hung on until I drew blood. He soon lived to regret his
behaviour, and I made my escape.
These were isolated incidents, and
not something I’m planning to repeat, but what it demonstrates is that biting is
usually an impulsive action, unplanned and a spontaneous response to a person’s
emotional state.
Using one’s teeth as a weapon,
either of aggression or in defense, reverts us back to the most primitive human
state, before we learnt to make our own warheads. It also takes us back to our
early years as unruly toddlers, when unable to express ourselves in other ways,
biting does at least gain the attention of those on the receiving end.
During international sporting
events, emotions of those participating, and observing, can run riot, and we have
seen many examples over the years of when the adrenalin, and the pressure to
perform, is running at such an astronomical level that all rational behaviour
flies out of the window, resulting in unpredictable outcomes.
However, we have high, perhaps
unrealistic expectations, of our sporting heroes as role models for those that idolise
them, and increasingly expect them to behave in a way that is out of all
proportion; they are after all human, just like the rest of us.
Biting by adults is unusual, although
many of us will remember the time when Mike Tyson bit off Evander
Holyfield's ear and spat it out, during the world heavyweight title fight in
1997; resulting in Tyson’s disqualification.
In the case of Luis, where this is the
third incident in which he has been involved, it is most likely to have been
carried out because of an intense sense of frustration. However, that, and the
fact that it would appear that Giorgio is not going to press charges, does not
excuse the behaviour. It is classed as common assault.
He
may have found that in this case
he has indeed bitten off more than he can chew. In the meantime, whilst I
don't wish to trivialise the incident, I wouldn’t be at all surprised
to
find that the act of biting someone soon finds its way into our
vocabulary, as ‘doing
a Suarez’.
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